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BEING NICE


The simple act of God being so nice brought about the creation. Another is the rugged cross. But today in our society, I may be going too far if I say society. Today, in the body of Christ, being nice, we think, is so expensive a venture to get ourselves into. The concept of being nice has left our systems so strongly that those who seem to nice go in for it, hence; they are being taken advantage upon. I put this way, the synonym given to the great commission, to me, is to be nice to all men, nothing more, nothing less.
Yet, this has more or less been under emphasized and of course, we assume to be Christians-what a misnomer. The scripture declares as said Luke to Theophilus how Jesus of Nazareth went about doing good--- I’d rather say it this way. How he went about being nice. I write to represent a concept that God himself implored,
Sages also have this as a record, even kings and kingdoms, politicians, the so acclaimed public liability companies- just being nice.
Being nice is a simple phrase, but with a varied and big concept. It has no limits, no boundaries, no omission but commission, no impact unless implied, so intangible yet makes tangibility. The truth is nice people are of, but, one religion and what that is they never can tell. I present the simplest way to win souls to God yet maintain our place in heaven. Like salt, it seasons: like honey, usually gives sweet taste; like clothes covers our nakedness; like light, darkness can not comprehend it; like a commandment, establishes virtue…we can be nice to all men only if we can settle for the impact.
You may be thinking too far on this concept, but this is what I mean on the concept of being nice,
It could just be:
-Making someone’s day with just a smile on your face.
-Asking a fellow “how are you doing today?”
-Helping someone (stranger) to carry a luggage.
-Knowing somebody’s name intentionally.
-Calling someone by his or her name.
-Saying “Please” before you make a request.
-Buying someone lunch.
-Giving someone a cold drink in a sunny afternoon.
-Sending an sms to a fellow you are actually not in good talking terms with.
-Giving someone a lift after the church service.
-Saying “sorry” when you wrong someone.


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