"People are not lazy. They simply have impotent goals—that is, goals
that don't inspire them."
—Anthony
Robbins
Goal setting will do wonders in your life only if you
are able to set your goals right and pursue them without relenting or giving up. I have good news for you, “If you have made mistakes, there is always
another chance for you. You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for
this thing we call failure is not the falling down, but the staying down” were
the words of Mary Pickford
Goal-setting is a powerful
technique for helping you develop a solid foundation for future planning and
organization. By knowing what you want to achieve in life, you may know where
you want to concentrate and what to improve. If you can set well-defined goals,
you can measure and take pride in the achievement of those goals. Aspiring to
achieve your goals gives you motivation. For instance, you may want to attend a
major university. First, you need to do well on the S.A.T
Most of us spend our lives being confused. We want
both the promotion, and more time off. We want to save for our kid’s college,
but we want the new car, too. We want so many different things, we never DECIDE
to actually go after and ACHIEVE any one of them!
Goal-setting helps you to strive to achieve.
Although goal-setting may be challenging, it is generally worthwhile. Its
intention is to increase efficiency and effectiveness by specifying the desired
outcomes. According to Hellriegel, Slocum, and Woodman & Martens, they found
the following to be the most important purposes of goal-setting:
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Goals guide and direct behaviour.
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Goals provide clarity.
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Goals provide challenges and
standards.
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Goals reflect what the goal
setters consider important.
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Goals help improve
performance.
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Goals increase the motivation
to achieve.
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Goals help increase your pride
and satisfaction in his/her achievements.
·
Goals improve your
self-confidence.
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Goals help decrease negative
attitude.
People who use goal-setting effectively suffer
less from stress, are better able to concentrate, show more self-confidence,
and seem to feel happier.
The truth about goal setting is that you must
formulate goals to travel the road to success. The SMART guidelines can help to
set effective goals.
SMART
S-Specific: A goal of graduating from high school is too general.
Specify how this will be accomplished. (Study more in order to receive better
grades.)
M-Measurable: Establish criteria for how a goal is to be achieved. Measurable does not
refer to a timeline; it means determining a way to measure your success in
completing the long-range goal.
A-Action-oriented: Be proactive in taking action that will result
in reaching the desired goal.
R-Realistic: Strive for attainable goals, considering the
resources and constraints relative to the situation.
T-Timely: Allow reasonable time to complete each goal, but not so
much time hence, you lose focus or motivation.
(Adapted from Discovery Focus on Your Values and Accomplish Your
Goals. Franklin Quest,
1996)

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